Thoughts
Do you see difficulties in every opportunity or opportunities in every difficulty?
Tips to Happiness
Stop complaining ♥ Hear that, Singaporeans? Choose to see the good and be selective :)
Whatever you do, give it your best ♥ At the end of it, you can proudly say that, “I have done my best”, and have no regrets.
Decide that happiness is a daily decision ♥ Wake up every morning and tell yourself that you choose to be happy. Look into the mirror and smile :) It will activate all those happy cells in your brains, bringing a healthy, youthful radiance that glows on your skin.
Accept where you are ♥ Shit happens. Things that shouldn’t happen can happen. If your boyfriend cheats on you, you can’t change reality.
Make a conscious decision to look for a reason to be grateful ♥
Set goals that have meaning for you ♥ You have to decide for yourself to live your own life, rather than pursuing someone else’s goals for you.
Decide to like yourself ♥ You don’t have to be perfect. Look for improvement, not perfection.
Be in love with yourself ♥
Love is a Verb
Because love isn’t just a feeling.
Love is a choice, and love is something we all need to do.
Love is a verb
- Gary Chapman
Shoes and Men
“In an age of slovenliness and fat, simply being thin is a mark of status, and high heels emphasize the advantage by lengthening the leg… Women’s willingness to tolerate discomfort, even pain, in the service of fashion is often chalked up to the desire to attract a mate or to rise a step in the social hierarchy.”
Interesting.
I read some intriguing fashion insights regarding 12-inch heels on display at Alexander McQueen’s 2010 spring show. It makes me wonder. Why do we love the shoes that hurt us? What are the consequences of wearing high heels?
How is it similar to relationships, men in particular? How much pain can women tolerate? What are the consequences of being in an unhappy relationship? Many people settle too quickly into situations that aren’t a good fit for them because they think that being with the other person externally validates their worth.
Unlike shoes, you don’t have to settle for someone who completes you. Instead, find someone who complements you.
Harangued by an airhead
It is not within my means if there are people out there who love to speak or write in heaps of negativity. I don’t feel a need to defend or explain myself but I detest it when people don’t get their facts right and make derogatory claims or remarks or even to the extent of ‘name’ calling. Therefore, I am going to address this topic so I can set the record straight and clarify matters once.
Coincidences do occur from time to time and I have better spirit than to plagiarize from an unworthy source. Sometimes, when I am in a mood, I do partake in some harmless googling to pluck words of wisdom from parts of the web to share with my friends and readers.

If this is not your quote, do not bother making a big fuss out of it.
Oh, check this out. This is a print screen of Newsweek dated 30th March 2009 – Generation Diva. I got my beauty breakdown from here.

See that click here to find out exactly how much women spend on a lifetime of beauty maintenance? Did someone forget to mention that my post was written before the mentioned on 1st April 2009 after reading Newsweek? The only possible source that I can quote is Newsweek :)
Next time use a higher resolution photo, if not people might think that you copy me since yours was written on the next day *primary school girl voice*
Being a social science graduate, I have given proper citations to every single comment, remark, fact or whatsoever for every single paper, slide, speech, presentation, report etc. I do not need a business graduate to teach me where I should quote, when to quote, what not to quote or even how and who I should quote. If I did not obtain my sources from the mentioned, I will never give credits. That being said, I can’t possibly defend myself all the time when such claims or remarks are made. I’m not obsessed with my site, visiting it every day, much less yours. What happened in my life is so different from yours. Oh well.
To those who are guilty of the above, please grow up.
Haute Heels for a Cause
The Salvatore Ferragamo Pink Collection is the product of a joint effort between the designer and the Breast Cancer Foundation for Breast Cancer Awareness month.
OMG! I want this!! It’s so pretty!

Caged heels swathed in crystals!! *loves*
Boost Your Brain Power
Happy Children’s Day!
As major school examinations loom, anxious parents will want to do all they can to help their children achieve better grades. Here are some tips to boost brain power which I got from Mind Your Body :*) Hope it helps!
Sleep Getting enough sleep is absolutely essential. Most people know that I sleep less than 3 hours each day. Please do not follow me! It is definitely not wise to do so. “Sleep helps the brain to rest and recover and consolidate memories. Good quality sleep keeps the brain alert and responsive, while lack of sleep can lead to poor focus and memory loss.” Nevertheless, I think I’m least affected by sleep. My memory is too good to be true and I can focus even better when I sleep less. I’m grouchy when I sleep more than 5 hours :)

Light Meals Avoid large meals or heavy meals in fats, particularly just before an exam. “When we eat a heavy meal, blood is diverted to the digestive tract and away from the brain. This makes us sluggish and sleepy.”
Diet Have a diet rich in fruit and vegetables, which will boost the immune system. This is good for key internal organs which directly affect the brain. Tip: Soupy meals with fish or chicken and dates. Other brain foods include black sesame, walnut, wolfberry and American ginseng. Drink plenty of water too!
Relaxed Environment Keep the home environment harmonious and free of argument. Reduce stress for the child so he/she can focus on his/her revision. Parents, please do not constantly nag at your child to study harder. It will just irritate the shit out of them.
How True?
“There’s a point in your life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up and realizing that you don’t need certain people and the shit they bring”
Style Insider ♥ Maggie in the Nude
There are some classic fashion pieces every girl needs to own. These classics not only keep you looking chic on campus, but also sexy at work! You probably already own a killer pair of black heels. Black is classy and goes well with anything. While black is great, sometimes you just need a little oomph.
If you don’t have a pair of nude heels of your own, they are a style you must invest in.
There’s just something so naked about this wonderfully inviting neutral color. Dresses, tops, pants and accessories – you’ll find fashionistas wearing this trend in every form possible. You’ll be able to integrate your new pumps into your wardrobe seamlessly, and may even find yourself picking them instead of your basic black when you’re getting ready to go out! For legs that look like they go on forever, take a cue from some famous fashion moguls and find some flesh-fitting kicks.

What can I say about Maggie Q? She is smoking hot!
My favorite way to sport my nude appeal is on my feet and I can’t wait for the upcoming collection from Charles & Keith. It’s time to be in the nude girls :*)
Marilyn Monroe

“I don’t know who invented high heels, but all women owe him alot!”
- Marilyn Monroe
Glitz and Glamour
I miss being in the limelight. I hope to shine one day.





Will there be a chance for me to do so?
Want…

This is a want… not a need.
I have the black one though… *drools*
Now, I can only pray hard that my leg will recover soon.
I miss wearing them.
Life after being a student
I am not in the best of moods right now, so everything that I type following this would be considered as irrational thoughts spewed in a pique of frustration.
I realized that studying is the only thing in my life that never disappoints me. Some may wonder “How can that be?” True. But yes. Studying is constant, I know I can depend on it and I know that it is for my own good. Either you pass or you fail. Ironic but yes. Everything else, everyone else is but variables that let you down.
I’ve never bummed for so long before. I never felt so useless before. I need something exciting. Something that makes me think. Something that keeps my brain juices moving. I need a challenge. I want to improve the way things are done. I hate routines and this is not what I expected it to be. I felt cheated.
You know what they say about things always happening at the same time? Well… for those who know, I’ve been ‘infected’, ‘crippled’, ‘brain dead’, soon-to-be ‘toothless’ for the past month and I HATED IT! It is not my fault when someone transmits some viruses to me, in turn attacks my poor eye transforming it into a golf ball, disrupting my vision or when I sprain my knee and ankle, after injuring myself at work, having it look like a parallel trunk and not being able to walk or when I have to fix my teeth, having major surgery on each of my four wisdom teeth, extracting four perfectly healthy ones and on top of it, spending thousands on it just to make it look straight.
Shit happens. I know. You think I want to be absent all these while? In my entire life, I have never taken any MC or missed any lessons. So who are you to say what you said? I do not need sarcastic remarks or creatures lurking around and talking behind my back, trying to put me down. Now that I’ve ‘started’, seems like there are a lot of… shit happening together.
I’m determined to stay and prove my worth. I do not like to give up. It is so not me. But is it worth it? All the talk about being small and having the advantages of being more understanding, more caring, an open door policy, blah blah blah… I think it is bullshit. ‘Nuff said.
On a lighter note, I like the boss. He is so inspiring. I feel so much whenever he gives a speech. I am so happy I finally get to meet him. Sometimes, things just don’t go the way you want it to be. I chose this path, so I have to accept and manage my own expectations.
Learning to adapt is what I’m good at.
I am. Are you?
“To be a great champion,
you must believe you are the best.
If you’re not,
pretend you are.”
- Muhammad Ali














